In the story, as told, the guy did absolutely nothing wrong and innocently asked her out, which is not the same as "hitting on" (which requires unwelcome flirting and attempts at physical contact). Maybe he really is a creep, but maybe he's just a good guy who found her attractive.
Going off on a tangent here...Older guy liking a younger girl doesn't automatically = pervert. 30+ year old women hate on and gossip about these types of guys all the time (successful middle aged men with younger girlfriends/wives). But when these now-judgemental older women were back in college riding the **** carousel and he was diligently studying and actually wanted a serious relationship instead of casual sex, do you think they would have given him the time of day? Because there are a lot of male physicians who did just that. It's rough being a young man who works hard and desires real relationships with women watch their romantic interests reject them over and over again for some douchey frat guy they find hot who just wants to use them. The really good guys peak when they are 30-40. I don't blame them one bit for being more interested in the 25 year olds instead of those their age who disregarded them left and right when they were younger and now suddenly and desperately think they deserve them.
I don't know the particulars of this situation at all because they were not given, and I could be totally 100% wrong about this dude, but for some reason as written, I kinda feel sorry for the guy.
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I was hit on by the physician I shadowed.
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